What do you girls think of the male members here??

[Zohra]

My experience with men on Tgirlwebsites is that MOST men are chasing one tranny after another and they are not looking for real romance or a relationship with a Tgirl but just some sexual encounter to forfil an 'ultimate fantasy'.

Trannyspace has a lot of male members and most of them are behaving well, but i wonder how many of them are really interested in loving, protecting, caring and living together with a Tgirl. My experience with men on Trannywebsites is that most are nothing but trannychasers, dirty wankers and 'tgirl-collectors'. So i wonder what you girls think about the male members on this website.

Is there a male member bothering you, approaching you disrespectully, sexually, pornographically or any other 'respectless' stuff?

Most guys havent got a CLUE what it's like to be 'special' like us but treat us like some 'third rank' girl, because they like to use us just to forfill their 'ultimate fantasy' once in their life and in case we are 'lucky' they chase one after another because it makes him so 'hot'.

I wonder if the girls on this website LIKE the male members to be here or should we keep the men out, so this community will be for us girls only?

Or would you girls like to have the opportunity to meet men or not?

I have to dissapoint most girls here when they think that the male members are looking for 'love' with us Tgirls. Ofcourse there will be 'some' between them, not all fingers on a hand are the same, but generally most trannychasers just want us for 'some fun' and nothing more.

By the way, most of them are too chicken to join this website WITH a picture, while we girls are showing off ourselves. Most of the male members who try to join TRANNYSPACE haven't included a clear personal picture, they just upload NOTHING or just some stupid picture from Mickey Mouse, Betty Boop or a 'lovely sunset'.

It makes me So angry when i see this happening every day when i have to grant access to new members. Even though there is a BIG board that says: 'NO ENTRANCE WITHOUT PICTURE'.

So gurls, let me know what you think ???

Cheers,
Zohra

[Zohra]

Hi 'D' -darling...

I am not planning of making it 'girls-only' LOL!!!! But was just wondering about the guys here and if they are bothering the girls or what,.

As a proper queen i have to rule good over my country ;-) and protect my lambs (LOL)

Hey, what about the show, are you still interested in having me on it? I replied to your email, can you lemme know?

I also ave my skypename in your Trannyspace mailbox.

Check it plz ok?

Hugz and kisses,
Zohra

[Zohra]

What a material girl (LOL!) hehehehe

[Mojo Zap]

This is very hard for me but Im going to say what I think. First off words and terms dont even start to be able to say what we really feel. I lived for years full time as a woman because I had money and could do whatever I wanted to. I lost all that and ended up in a new place/world where I now have to live as a man!!!!!!!!!!!

Personally myself I adore and love transgender people and only want to relate to other transgender people because that is where my heart and feelings are. Does that make me a lesbian? Mabey it does but in reality what Im saying is that men may have true feelings for transgender people and be loving and respectful but for sure should have no problem with having their picture up here!

Some people just like sex for sex itself. Me I am an emoitional person with a sprit and need to be in a relationship based on my feelings of mind,body and sprit. Thats just me as everyone is diferent. I do feel this shold not be a place to just hit on transgender people for a cheap thrill.

Ill even be more blunt now as I in fact did join trannyspace to meet and interact with other transgender people with the hopes of finding someone to love. Zohra and other members are real open and honest about their feelings and we know how honest and real we are. That works!

In the end what I hope is we all end up happy and have what we want and need. As to if that happens or not is a crap shoot as is all of life. I would like to think in this day and age we live in we should always seek what we need and want as life is fragil and short.

Love & Hope

[Rico]

I think that men should be allowed if they are respectful, because we are involved in the same community. I'm not into the whole sex scene. I just want one person in my life.

[Max]

Well, don't count me among the "trannychasers". Granted, it always starts out as a curiosity, fantasy, etc. And some men (okay, most men) who fulfill that fantasy are content with that. Then there are those like me who realize they have an earnest attraction to transgendered women and would love NOTHING more than to find one lady to walk through life with.

I'm not saying this as an angry rebuttal to this post, but rather just to clarify why I'm here and (hopefully) to provide some reassurance for the women here that some of us DID join this website for the right reasons.

You are correct in positing that most men on most trans websites are in fact looking to fulfill their ultimate fantasies (believing them to be taboo in some way, thereby intensifying the desire). That's why I am glad that SOMEBODY out there created one where the focus is on finding LOVE. Unfortunately, as with any singles site, the proportion of men here outnumbers that of the women. (Why does that always happen???) But at least it's a step in the right direction and seeks to provide an alternative to the Trannychaser sites.

I hope to see the numbers grow here and the gender imbalance even out some. And I hope that sites like this will grow and take on a more professional quality like match.com or true.com. (Can somebody tell me WHY they never have a transgender category???) Not saying anything bad about this site or others like this, but I would view it as a sign of recognition and progress to see a site for trans/admirers that can provide the full service of some of the aforementioned better-known dating sites. That, to me, would signify social progress.

I hope that makes sense.

In the meantime, I'm just glad there's something like this on the Internet, and that I'm not alone in looking for something more than just a hook-up or to fulfill some "forbidden" fantasy.

[Zohra]

Hi MAx,

Thanks for the extended answer and i am glad you are happy on Trannyspace :-) You gave a great answer wich will satisfy the ladies overhere.

We are all well aware that it all starts out as a curiosity and some men DO find out that transgenderwomen is the women they like as sexual and romantical preference. In this case there is nothing wrong with it.

But in case guys are chasing trannies just for the thrill or fetish, then i say: HELL NO I AM NOT A FREAKIN' FETISH'

Thanks again for your cool reply!

Zohra

[Max]

Glad you liked my response, Zohra! And thanks for sharing your thoughts on my post. I most definitely agree with your reaction when various men are looking for a fetish. Technically, ALL attractions can in some way be classified as "fetishes". (For example, I have long hair and tattoos, and some women have a fetish for that.) But we all know the difference in how the term is applied and by whom, so there's no need to go through it with a fine-toothed comb.

I suppose it's one thing to HAVE a fetish (don't we all?) and quite another to BE a fetish. The first is, for the most part, morally neutral in and of itself. The second is often degrading! It's okay to POSSESS something one has a fetish for, quite another to be SEEN as NOTHING MORE than a fetish. But I'm sure you understand that.

I look at it this way: I have my fetishes like the rest of us. But I don't look at anyone in a way I don't want to be looked at. Sure, I notice women -- be they trans, intersexed, genetic -- and have thoughts. But if you can't see the whole person, then you have very fundamental respect issues, and you certainly don't deserve to be seen as a whole person yourself! And if you CAN'T be attracted to the person who possesses your particular fetish and still be able to see the whole person behind it, then YOU YOURSELF are not a whole person. And thus, you don't DESERVE a whole person!

Period.

[Zohra]

I understand you Max,

But to define the term 'fetish' further:

I mean with my view of fetish a 'secret desire that you wanna keep hidden. As a taboo or something. I hear from lots of men who feel attracted to me, they say: 'I want it as an extra'. Very few men choose for a transsexual for LOVE.

We all have our sexual preferences ofcourse and there is nothing wrong with a certain sexual attraction, but i dont want to be degraded and be 'a taboo-ish fetish' , a 'thing' men love to get 'hard-on' but no one may know about it.

Sometimes, the way men describe 'us' gurls as something freaky they get turned-on, by, makes me feel like a piece of leather , rubber or a 'thrill' they get turned-on by, but as something dark they feel ashamed of but still 'love' in a way...

That is what i mean with 'secret-fetish':-)

Thanks a lot :-)


Zohra

[Jami Bantry]

Hi Zohra,

I agree totally with you.

I am interested in meeting and developing a friendship with a Human Being, regardless of that person's anatomy.

I also do not want to be viewed as an object of sexual fulfillment. If a friendship develops and we have "other" mutual interests, and we become mutually attracted, then we will proceed with the relationship from there.

Nor do I prefer to be "selected" as a "substitute" for a genetic woman, particularly if that person cannot "generally/regularly" obtain what he/she desires from a genetic woman.

We transgender people (MTF or FTM) are not "second class citizens"... "substitutes" for the "real deal." We are Human Beings deserving the same respect and courtesy as any other Human Being; nothing less, nothing more.

So, for me, if someone is expecting me to be a "plaything substitute," then please don't even bother contacting me. It will be a waste of my time and yours. BTW, long ago I had been in online chats (over 10 years ago) where the other party is a "one-hand" typist during our chat, and I have long since left that arena, and it certainly does NOT interest me.

I am NOT trying to be crude or rude here.... just real and truthful.

Take care; please be, and ALWAYS stay, safe and well.

Huggs,
jami

"All you need is Love; Love is all you need."