What do you girls think of the male members here??

[Zohra]

My experience with men on Tgirlwebsites is that MOST men are chasing one tranny after another and they are not looking for real romance or a relationship with a Tgirl but just some sexual encounter to forfil an 'ultimate fantasy'.

Trannyspace has a lot of male members and most of them are behaving well, but i wonder how many of them are really interested in loving, protecting, caring and living together with a Tgirl. My experience with men on Trannywebsites is that most are nothing but trannychasers, dirty wankers and 'tgirl-collectors'. So i wonder what you girls think about the male members on this website.

Is there a male member bothering you, approaching you disrespectully, sexually, pornographically or any other 'respectless' stuff?

Most guys havent got a CLUE what it's like to be 'special' like us but treat us like some 'third rank' girl, because they like to use us just to forfill their 'ultimate fantasy' once in their life and in case we are 'lucky' they chase one after another because it makes him so 'hot'.

I wonder if the girls on this website LIKE the male members to be here or should we keep the men out, so this community will be for us girls only?

Or would you girls like to have the opportunity to meet men or not?

I have to dissapoint most girls here when they think that the male members are looking for 'love' with us Tgirls. Ofcourse there will be 'some' between them, not all fingers on a hand are the same, but generally most trannychasers just want us for 'some fun' and nothing more.

By the way, most of them are too chicken to join this website WITH a picture, while we girls are showing off ourselves. Most of the male members who try to join TRANNYSPACE haven't included a clear personal picture, they just upload NOTHING or just some stupid picture from Mickey Mouse, Betty Boop or a 'lovely sunset'.

It makes me So angry when i see this happening every day when i have to grant access to new members. Even though there is a BIG board that says: 'NO ENTRANCE WITHOUT PICTURE'.

So gurls, let me know what you think ???

Cheers,
Zohra

[Michelle-Marie Hodges]

Veronica, a little off the subject matter but I wanted comment on your two statements, "That is EXACTLY what the closeted discrete types are doing." and "I will never let anyone dictate who I am for me." This is a constant demand I hear from so many of my trans sister's here in Virginia. They feel I should be "stealth" a word I hate. I don't go out of my way to tell people but I will not hide or lie about my past to cover it up. I hid whom and what I was for years all because I was ashamed and feared what always happened when my true self was discovered and it was demanded of me, be a man and I gave in. I am not hiding any longer, I will stand and speak, write and be read when it comes to regaining what I lost by finally accepting and becoming truly who I always have been since birth and living openly and freely as the woman I am.

[Michelle-Marie Hodges]

Zohra, I find much more acceptance of who I openly am, and as an activist within many LGB organizations as well as the many "normal folks" as I do with many of my trans sisters. My being so open in my speaking and writing they feel brings on public scrutiny. They feel as I pass well, their words, I should blend in quietly and secretly and just live my life. My feelings are what about those behind us, the young children of today. Should they have to fight the same battles to survive? I say no.

[Zohra]

You're right michelle-marie... i think we, in this generation should fight for ourselves and our right to be here... so following generations dont have to fight that hard, because most things must be achieved by then...

I write on my dutch blog very openly about my transsexuality also and people are surprized about me being so open and free about it. But i would never wanna live in 'stealth' (i hate this word too) and will always inform people about me and who i am...

They are just gonna HAVE to accept that!

Love,
Zohra

[Black Rose]

thx love really missed ur sweet words so much wish u r fine there and wish u had find the real love u were searching for

[Zohra]

Your welcome habibi... and NO i havent found someone yet, i am still alone.. and AVAILABLE ;-)

Unfortunately you like 4 million miles away from me and not able to travel....

[lisa]

well i havnt had any problems yet so far they seem to be respectfull i dont know about the others. you do whats best girlfriend

[suzie]

Hi Hon
Most males i know follow in the same catagory as you describe , males with out pics should be band from sight .

LOL SUZIE

PS : most only want to look at our pictures , they are not to serious about meeting any of us.

[Zohra]

Hi sweetie :-)

I am glad you are so lucky... but in some parts of the world, you will be harrassed when you ARE or LOOK different, and we have tobe honest... most transsexuals have male outlooks, even though they dress very feminine. We are eyecatchers and people love to make fun of us ofcourse ;-)

At least we have the guts.... to go nuts (LOL)

Love,
Zohra

[sean]

me as a male im here because my friend is going through this trasnstion and i want to show soport even though i dont understand what he is going through i want to understand n show soport even though im completly straight but i want my friend to know that i will try to help him in any way

[Zohra]

Hi Sean,

This is very cool of you to support your friend. But i think from now on you better refer to your friend as 'her' instead of 'him' i assume 'he' is becoming a 'she' right???

Good that you are educating yourself about transgender issues...

You mentioned that you are 'straight' dont forget we are 'straight' too... we are straight women, born in the wrong bodies. However there are many translesbians but i consider myself a straight women. So its not really necessary to mention that you are STRAIGHT (LOL)

Welcome on Trannyspace...

Zohra

[The Artist D]

I like men. I like admirers. Therefore, male admirers are OK with me. :)

I'm hardly optimistic when it comes to love. I don't think many people anywhere really want to dole out love, affection and protection. Most people are dirty wankers, even if they don't acknowledge it themselves.

I am personally turned off from the pages I come across that say "GIRLS ONLY!" It's like the Mickey Mouse club or something similarly as tone deaf to cultural hard-ons.

[Michelle-Marie Hodges]

Sean, please take this only as a way to really support your friend, remember your use of pronouns when referring to your friend. I take it your friend is a TransWoman and see you wrote you don't understand what is going on with your friend by referring to her by the pronoun he. Then you said you will try to help. One of the biggest ways to help and support is to acknowledge your friend by the proper use of pronouns, she will truly appreciate your understanding.