Should we allow sexual and explicit content on the website or not???

[Zohra]

I was wondering if i was a boring novice or something, but actually the rules off this site say:

NO SEXUAL EXPLICIT CONTENT ALLOWED!!!

Still there are many kinky trannies and admirers who try to upload sexual explicit content on the site...

I ask myself: 'WHAT DO THE PEOPLE ON THIS WEBSITE WANT???''

Do we want it to be a cool, fun and supportive place? Or do we like it to be a nasty, raunchy and disgusting pornographic website???

I really NEED your guys opinions on this one, because some people claim i am a boring novice...

Then i ask myself: 'ARENT THERE ENOUGH PORNY AND RAUNCHY WEBSITES ALREADY on this world involving trannyporn????'

Sometimes i ask myself if newbies here are BLIND or something, because on the signup screen is a HUGE picture that says: 'TRANNYSPACE IS NOT A PORNOGRAPHIC AND PICKUP WEBSITE!!!!'

Who the hell do they think they are fooling????

Regards,
Zohra

[sean]

i mean this site is yor vison so if you dont want it dont allow it i mean that isnt the wholefocus in life(sex) i mean there is way more to life

[Zohra]

Hi AC,

Thanks ffor the long answer...

Intentionally my idea of this website was to create a place for transsexuals, shemales and crossdressers to make friends, feel safe and possibly find a lover for life.

Unfortunately, when you open the place for DATING, it also attracts men who wanna get off with a transgirl or woman, this just happends everywhere, no matter how well you moderate. There is always rotten fruit in the basket, no matter how fresh and juicy the rest of the fruit may be!

I never intended this to be a sexual and pornographic place, but looking around on the net, this just seems so common that i started asking myself if i was behaving foolish or novice like (LOL)

I dont want this place to be TOO christian (LOL) but also i dont want it to be too nasty and porny...

Personally i think that with a strict moderating i can keep it decent and nice... so its all clear to me now, NO PORN HERE :-)

Hugs,
Zohra

[Zohra]

I know Sean, but as 'Queen' of my 'country' i wanna be democratic, so i keep referendums (LOL)_....

I mean, when starting a website, everybody has his or her own ideal , but when a website grows , the ideals and intentions can grow with it and change somehow...

But i think i know what to do and i wanna keep it free from porn and nice for all those people who are looking for geniune friendships and love

Thanks for adding your two cents...

Zohra

[Rico]

I love porn, but on this website, you should limit it to like myspace, if persons meet they can send them their email address if they want porn. we dont want friendships crowded out of the picture!

[laura]

not interested in sexually explicit material being uploaded on here hon

[DeeDee]

Greetings to all of you! Since I have been asked to participate in this discussion, you will all hear it both barrells. Sorry if it offends... actually, no I'm not... because I am sure it will only offend those who want to turn this place into a garbage dump! I am a human being, first and foremost. I possess both masculine and feminine energies. I am not ashamed of that. I happen to possess only female genitalia. but I take what I have been given. I am here to learn about others who unlike me are more in touch with their feminine side. I have friends here. I do not consider myself a prude, nor will I ever. I have no problem with nudity (I am a licensed massage therapist) I honor the body as being a marvelous creation! The point is, some people need to grow some nads.... if this is your site, then make it your site! Do not allow others to dictate to you how to run your site. I personally do not wish to view pictures of men dressed as women, taking it up the rear... or other positions. I do not with to peer down the tunnel of the penis, or up the cavern of the anus. What is the point of that? It is not a pretty picture to look at. Most trans people are not pretty to look at, however, I say if this is what floats your boat, then so be it! If you feel you are a female inside, then persue what you can... just don't be exploiting yourself, the way cheap women do on the internet or otherwise. If you can't respect your own bodies, how can you expect others to respect you? Try taking a look at who you are on the inside and forget about what lies on the outside. Zohra... if they want trash... send them running... let their feet carry them to badness... there are plenty of sites out there for that sort of thing. Let's keep this an honorable place. Do you have what it takes? Are you afraid that there aren't enough like minded people? Don't sell yourself short! Stand by your principles!

[Zohra]

Hi DeeDee,

Thanks for adding your two cents.

Ofcourse this is my site, but i like to hear opinions of members. MY SITE yes but its not only MY PLACE but also the MEMBERS place, because they are the ones who hang out here and they are the ones i have to 'entertain' wit the content the site has to offer.

I am trying to figure out what is most needed here and i think i have a slight impression ;) lknowing what all the answers are telling me and that is no porn.

I am also not interested to see other peoples 'insides via the anus[' and the penis tunnels that are visible because they put some thing inside it.... (GROCEEE) because this is not what this website is about.

Still, 40 - 50% of the people who are trying to join this website try to do this on conditions that are going WAY against my rules, for example:

No profile picture
Dick pictures in dresses
Just dick pictures
Fuck pictures

....and so on.

It totally disgusts me that i have to see this every single day and it makes me totally MADDDD because on joining the website there is a BIG picture that tells ALL the rules Trannyspace has.. and still they think i am stupid and that i will allow them anywar, regardless of the fact that they totally ignore my sites rules.

Everyday dosens of dicks in dresses are passing my poor eyes and i have to see all this, because i must moderate the website and it makes me a bit numb...

I am sick and tired of the fact that almost half of the worlds population is oversexed and totally freaky in their sexual interests... Girl,, the things i have to read when i moderate the members... ewghhh

I will always stand by my principles and will keep this a CLEAN site... it MUST and will always BE a safe have for Tgirls!

Cheers,
Zohra

[DeeDee]

you must already know, the dicks in dresses, etc, are merely exhibitionists.... this site is not about exhibitionism. If you are interested in maintaining this site for your members, then make them happy! Tell those perverts to go find a perverted site for what they want.... They just want to get a rise out of you. I do understand how you feel. About 15 yrs ago, a friend of mine who used to own a bulletin board asked me to label all of her pictures. After about a half hour, I couldn't do it anymore. I saw so many penises... and vulvas..... and breasts.... I mean, how many different names can you come up with? It bored me... I just don't get why people are so entertained by all of that! I am more about what's on the inside of the person.... not their outsides.... Well, many people just don't get it. It's really sad.

[Jamie Lynne]

No we don't need that here they have there own places to do that lets keep this site clean please

[Zohra]

I know the dicks in dresses are nothing more then fetishists who get a hard on on acting woman like or 'degrede themselves' as women by wearing 'lovely flowerdresses' and stockings ;-)

When i was young, a penis turned me on (LOL) but i have seen so many in my life that it doesnt interest me no longer and in fact groces me out. I also dont understand how people can be entertained by this kinda stuff, but its the majority of the people who like this kind of stuff.

See how full the internet is with groce websites, sometimes it really makes me vomit... but i keep it in ;-)

I delete or ignore their applyings to become a member when i see a picture in my eyecorner that shows off a dick of a dick in a dress, because this has nothing to do with transgenderism...

Love,
Zohra

[Zohra]

You are right Susan,

Someone else gave this as an option also, if they wanna exchange dirty pictures they can do this via private messaging...

This website Is and will ALWAYS BE a supportive and informative website and every body who becomes a member here should feel comfortable.

Cheers,
Zohra

[Michelle-Marie Hodges]

Yvonne,
I would like to say that not all, especially this transsexual woman is in anyway closeted. I live my daily life completely as a the woman I am. I have all the legal documentation identifying me as a female, yet I am out there actively writing and speaking as a TransWoman. One of the most used issue the closed minded use against the acceptance and inclusion of transgender people is, we all are druggies and prostitutes, hiding in womens bathrooms waiting to pounce on their unsuspecting children. We all know that is a complete exaggeration of the truth. We are like any other struggling in our daily lives just trying to make ends meet. Yes their are people such as those they describe but all one has do do is look at the very reasons they are in that situation. Its the un-acceptance they face. I know personally several young trans girls who were kicked out of their homes because their families refused to accept them as who they truly are much less understand them. Then alone in their teens with no education, what are they to do living on the streets. So, alone, hungry and with a need to be themselves where can they turn to for help. We all know transition cost money and lots of it. This is also the reason so many begin using injected silicone, a dangerous practice. They need to look great and fast to survive. The time it takes for medically supervised Hormone therapy takes valuable time when one needs to survive on their own. In my working with the young trans people I know I can not stress on them enough the need to continue their education. One of the other issues trans people face is employment. Finding a job where one can be gainfully employed making a decent wage. Transition is not easy, unless you work for a employer sensitive to this and your allowed to on the job and covers it medically. This means a better job than flipping hamburgers, not that its not bad, but it will not cover your expenses. So that diploma is of great importance.

This is the reason I am out there as an activist. I get a lot of criticism for it. I'm told "you pass and in your daily life no one knows, so why be out there bringing on public scrutiny to us and our community" Hey I face this from many of the "closeted" trans people you mentioned. I was with a friend the founders of a trans support group and their VP. I was asked to step down and then asked to leave all because of my writings and public talks on discrimination and my own life experience. "I shouldn't do that, I should remain stealth" I hate that word and its very idea.This I truly feel comes mainly from those that transition late in life. They lived the life of a privileged male with a middle to upper income job. Then when they transition the have the funds for transition. Now they are legally female yet still have the mindset of the privileges they had as males. Most have the attitude that "hey I struggled, I made it, so can you....so why should I put myself out there"

I am proud of who and what I am. I have faced abuse which for me started at five. The abuse I've faced has been verbal, physical, mental and sexual, all because I was seen as a boy but identified as a girl and it was used as a venerability against me. This is the reason I am out there, I don't want this to keep continuing. Our young children have the right to be who they are without the discrimination and bigotry I and so many others have faced. We need acceptance, inclusion and protection which will give us the ability to succeed as productive members in society.

I hid far to many years and I will never hide again.