What do you girls think of the male members here??

[Zohra]

My experience with men on Tgirlwebsites is that MOST men are chasing one tranny after another and they are not looking for real romance or a relationship with a Tgirl but just some sexual encounter to forfil an 'ultimate fantasy'.

Trannyspace has a lot of male members and most of them are behaving well, but i wonder how many of them are really interested in loving, protecting, caring and living together with a Tgirl. My experience with men on Trannywebsites is that most are nothing but trannychasers, dirty wankers and 'tgirl-collectors'. So i wonder what you girls think about the male members on this website.

Is there a male member bothering you, approaching you disrespectully, sexually, pornographically or any other 'respectless' stuff?

Most guys havent got a CLUE what it's like to be 'special' like us but treat us like some 'third rank' girl, because they like to use us just to forfill their 'ultimate fantasy' once in their life and in case we are 'lucky' they chase one after another because it makes him so 'hot'.

I wonder if the girls on this website LIKE the male members to be here or should we keep the men out, so this community will be for us girls only?

Or would you girls like to have the opportunity to meet men or not?

I have to dissapoint most girls here when they think that the male members are looking for 'love' with us Tgirls. Ofcourse there will be 'some' between them, not all fingers on a hand are the same, but generally most trannychasers just want us for 'some fun' and nothing more.

By the way, most of them are too chicken to join this website WITH a picture, while we girls are showing off ourselves. Most of the male members who try to join TRANNYSPACE haven't included a clear personal picture, they just upload NOTHING or just some stupid picture from Mickey Mouse, Betty Boop or a 'lovely sunset'.

It makes me So angry when i see this happening every day when i have to grant access to new members. Even though there is a BIG board that says: 'NO ENTRANCE WITHOUT PICTURE'.

So gurls, let me know what you think ???

Cheers,
Zohra

[June LaTrobe]

Hi,
Well, your points about some men is well said. However, it has been my experience that there are actually true "admirers" out there.
If they don't do their socializing at a site like this, then where do they meet Tgirls, at the bars?
To be candid, I am "attracted" to men and enjoy their company, both in public and private, so I like having them around.
However, I do agree that a blank, no photo profile is reason to eject anyone.
Also, I am a bit confused when you say; "I have to grant access to new memebrs." It seems to me that you can grant membership, or not, as you see fit.
Bottom-line; Keep them in, watch their behavior and send them packing when they mis-behaive.
All the best,
June

[Jami Bantry]

Hi Zohra,

I really don't have a problem with men being members in TrannySpace.

For me, personally I am attracted to other Human Beings. So long as any Human Being is respectful, compassionate, empathetic, and is genuinely, sincerely wanting to chat with me so that we can become better acquainted, then I am open to that Human Being; regardless of gender identity, anatomy or sexual orientation.

At the FIRST sign, to me, that the other person is "objectifying" me for their own selfish gratification, without any respect for my needs, and wishes, then I refuse to chat with that person further. Also, I will not let any time pass before I report this person to the website manager(s).

I dismissed online "one-hand typers" more than ten years ago, and I will not visit that arena again.

If a man can be a Human Being FIRST, with mutual respect afforded to the person with whom he is chatting, then becoming acquaintances and then friends may be in the offing. (Of course, mutual interests, and similar life experiences, helps much... something to share).

I also agree that if a man is not willing to share his picture (HIS picture) then HE must be hiding something or is ashamed to be here. I am not ashamed of myself. It would nice if HE was not ashamed either. I mean... really... what are the possibilities that other people that HE knows will see his photo here. And if they do, then what are the other people, he is guarding against, doing here???

Just a few thoughts from a lady who thinks too much.

Please keep up the good work you are doing with this site. It is obvious that you care. :-)

Take care, Zohra; please be, and ALWAY stay, safe and well.

Huggs,
jami

"All you need is Love; Love is all you need."

[Zohra]

Hi Michelle-Marie

WOW, what a story. Unfortunately i can not respond to all that you are writing, just to be polite i wanna answer you...

Your story is quite impressive and i totally agree with all you sayed... most admirers come here just 'for that something extra' while we present ourselves as women and wanna be treated as women and not being 'sexually attractive' for 'that something extra'.. These guys dont even HAVE A CLUE that we trully hate 'our dicks' and that we do not wish to play with it PERIOD!!!

I get guys all the time, asking me to keep it, so i would be 'special'. I am sick of being 'special' i just wanna be a normal woman that blends in and not a freaky shemale who exists merely for the perverted fantasies of some GAY men who can justify being GAY when having sex with a shemale, because we look FEMALE.

What also makes me sick is this:'' Hey, i am straight, but i would like to play with you and your thingy'.... 'STRAIGHT' why do they have to say this so clearly? Why they have to be so macho and let me know he is STRAIGHT ? I am STRAIGHT TOO... a HETEROSEXUAL WOMAN....

I dont believe men who love 'only tgirls'.. In fact they like boys but because we look like girls they can justify being GAY for themselves, they can not accept the fact that they are GAY....

Ofcourse pictureless profiles will not be allowed at Trannyspace. We are a community and i can't hide my face on the streets or in bars also when i go inside, or i should wear a Burqa ;-)

Anyway, i truly HATE these anonymous admirers and their excuse: 'Forgive me please but i am not ready to show myself yet, you see... my work, friends and family wouldnt accept it!!' FUCK THEM!!! Its just an excuse to hide themselves and their dark fantasies.

I just wanna be a woman , being LOVED as a woman and NOT as a tranny or shemale...

Thanks for adding your two cents Michelle-MArie

Hugs,
Zohra

[Zohra]

Right Jamie...

[quote] I mean... really... what are the possibilities that other people that HE knows will see his photo here. And if they do, then what are the other people, he is guarding against, doing here???[/quote]

This is exactly what i try to tell these men: 'Why are you so affraid of being seen on a website like this? And what are the people you are so afraid of seeing you here, doing here?'.

Then they say: 'Maybe they are checking on me or landed on this site by accident via google?'

Some excuse... and SO WHAT IF THEY SEE YOU??? Come out, stand up for yourself. Ok,, you might lose some friends, but you will WIN other friends who accept you for who you are, because they will get to know you in a new situation, with your Trans-love woman...

Losing one thing, makes space for even BETTER things most of the times.

I have lost family also , they rejected me because i was 'gay'. Later i came out as a transsexual and this they found even more weird. Being gay was so and so, but TRANS??? I am glad i got rid of them, this 'loving family'i rather have them rejecting me for something i am then 'loving' me for something i am NOT!!!

It truly made me free, coming out. And if only these men would see the gift of being rejected and expelled....

[Zohra]

Hi Veronika,

I couldn't STAND the idea of the man i love, having sex with others. I rather have multiple lovers then a man who cheats on me. Even if he was HONEST about having sex with others, this still would HURT me... why else start a relationship while HE wants to fool around?

I believe that when two people are a union, they should stick to eachother and if one of the couple still likes to play around, he should do this BEFORE starting the relationship with me and not while we are in it.

I know the nature of men, ofcourse... but this doesn't change my opinion about faithful relationships. I don't believe in the monogamy of men too, ofcourse, i have experienced too much for this also... but when two people choose for eachother, they choose for eachother and when they are not truly sexually happy together, then they should split up or be 'friends' or 'BRO AND SIS' rather then staying together while wanna play around.

I could NEVER fall in love with a TG, not even after a million humilliations by men or rejections or being cheated or whatever. MEN are what interests me sexually AND romantically. So i myself, could never fall for a TG... i had some who were interested i me, but the whole idea groces me out. Ofcourse i respect other trans-lesbians,, but this just isn't my thing.

Cheers :-)

Zohra

[Zohra]

Atually i meant the TRANSSEXUALS and not the shemales (LOL!)

Well i do not TOTALLY agree on 'knowing what a man needs' simple because i WAS one. MY gender NEVER WAS MALE so how could i EVER know what a man needs? Because i dont have MALE feelings.

I know about the advanages of TG girls ;) we have no periods and no excuses for 'headaches' ;) hehehe

[Zohra]

Hi 'V'...

It's indeed strange and difficult to move yourself in circles you have always been in... i mean, changing from a man to a woman is odd and strange to most people and when i take a good look at it, its strange to me also... but i cant to be any different and i chose to let go of my family and old situations and started a NEW and ffresh life with people in the Tgirlscene where i can be MYSELF!!!

Ofcourse i don't hide myself ONLY i the tgirlscene, but this is where i feel most comfortable and i have the feeling i can be totally myself.

In the so called 'normal world' we are ALWAYS confronted with questions about WHY and HOW? and WHAT???

When you a re amongst people who are like you, you feel so much more free.

They closeted types of men who happen to 'love' us should understand this also. Be amongst people who accept you ANYWAY you ARE... where you dont have to hide your true face, ffor NO ONE! And in case someone makes trouble of that, to hell with that person... right?

Love and hugs,
Zohra

[Zohra]

Did i say i wanna delete you??? you can stay member here sweety , you dont read the discussion...

[Zohra]

Hehe Veronika, you make me smile :-)

I am so happy that people accept you for who you are... but i am not always that lucky. Sometimes i get yelled: 'FAGGOT' a hundred times a day...

Recently a blavk man asked me: 'Why are you trying to become a woman, you faggot? You bettter stay a man because that is how you are made.

I replied:'Then why the hell are you trying to be a human being, while you are a monkey???'

This sounds discriminating yes, but i just HAD to hurt his feelings too, because i was sick and tired of it...

BTW, The religious ones are the WORST ;-) you kow they pinch the cat in the dark ;-)

I love your naughtiness :-)

Zohra

[Zohra]

Good story Veronika :-)

But for me, i could not accept this. Even if i knew him as a hunk.

Ofcourse i wouldnt reject the friendship but i am simply not attracted to women and could never have a relationship with one. So also not a TG LOLLL

But i Do find the situation very funny ofcourse :-) and i respect eachones ideas and relationships. But if i had a man who loves to wear womens clothes and appears as a woman, my sexdrive would sink to ZERO....

But i am happy that you are happy :-)

[Zohra]

BLACK ROSE 'was' and i believe STILLL IS in love with me Veronika. But he lives in Egypt and meeting eachother is just impossible to i took distance from him, but this doesnt mean that i reject him. I will love him always and never forget him... and cherish him in my heart.

[Black Rose]

i deleted my subject sorry girls i read the subject but seem i was so stupid cause i added my subject here forgive me all and pray for me that i travel one day far far away to live as i wished to be free and happy